Whether is strength or Valour is the most useful in war it was given in favour that Strength was.
Strength is not about always being happy, always having your house clean, your laundry done, always "being there" for others.
‘Strength is no better than weakness if it comes to bear too late,’ said the Horse.
Strength is about being vulnerable to our deepest emotions and allowing them to surface so we can experience the emotions and THEN we can move forward.
Strength is about admitting when we feel defeated - whether we have control over the situation or not.
Strength is exploited by the computer and hurts males ability to have a good relationship with the gods.